How to Train Your Dog: Build a Strong Bond Through Positive Reinforcement and Better Leash Walking
Positive reinforcement dog training is one of the most effective ways to improve leash walking and creates a strong bond with your dog. By rewarding good behavior, keeping training sessions short, and practicing calm walking skills, you can teach your dog to stay focused, walk politely, and trust you more every day. Training your dog is one of the best things you can do as a pet owner. It helps your dog learn good manners, keeps them safe, and makes your daily life easier. But more than anything, dog training helps you build a strong bond with your dog. When you train with patience and kindness, your dog learns to trust you. You also learn how to communicate in a way they understand.
One of the most important skills a dog can learn is leash walking. A dog that pulls, lunges, or zigzags can make walks stressful. However, with some practice and dedication—especially one that incorporates positive reinforcement—your dog can learn to walk calmly by your side. This guide will show you how to train your dog, why positive reinforcement works so well, and how to turn leash walking into a peaceful, enjoyable activity. The bottom line, if your dog is a terrible walker, then the walks will get shorter and shorter then there will be no walks.
Why Dog Training Matters
Dog training is more than teaching tricks. It shapes your dog’s behavior, helps them understand boundaries, and gives them confidence. A trained dog is less likely to jump on guests, run into danger, or develop bad habits. Training also helps your dog feel secure. Dogs love routine and clear expectations. When they know what you want, they feel calmer and happier.
Training also strengthens your relationship. When you spend time teaching your dog, you learn how they think. You start to notice their body language, energy levels, and what motivates them. This creates a strong bond that makes everything—from grooming to vet visits—much easier.
Why Positive Reinforcement Works
There are many ways to train a dog, but positive reinforcement is one of the most effective and humane methods. Positive reinforcement means rewarding your dog for doing something right. Instead of punishing mistakes, you focus on encouraging good behavior.
Rewards can include:
- Kibble (they are eating it anyway)
- Praise Verbal feedback, you constantly tell him when he is wrong, but do not say anything when he’s good, use more positive verbal feedback.
- Toys, i.e., walking toys that are held at the wrist and have a ball at the end
- Treats. All dogs love treats, so get one that is a high reward to them and only use it for very difficult situations on the walk. Try not to use so many treats, or you will have a dog that will only work for a treat. This is more like a bribe.
- Verbal feedback constantly tells your dog when he’s good and when he’s not doing the right thing, so he knows.
- The Walk! Moving forward and walking outdoors is a huge reinforcement for a dog.
Dogs repeat behaviors that get them something they like. If your dog sits and you give them a treat, they learn that sitting leads to good things. Over time, they start offering the behavior on their own.
Positive reinforcement also strengthens the trust that you and your dog share. Your dog learns that you are safe, predictable, and kind. This trust becomes the foundation of your strong bond.

How to Start Dog Training the Right Way
Before you begin training, set yourself up for success. Here are a few simple tips:
1. Keep Sessions Short
Dogs learn best in short bursts. Aim for 5–10 minutes at a time. Several small sessions throughout the day work better than one long training session. Also, know when to quit.
2. Use High‑Value Rewards
Find something your dog loves. Some dogs will do anything for a tiny piece of chicken. Others prefer a favorite toy. The better the reward, the faster your dog learns.
3. Be Consistent
Use the same words and gestures each time. If you say “down” one day and “lay down” the next, your dog may get confused. Try not to repeat the cue over and over. Only reward for fast downs. If you reward mediocrity, you will get mediocrity.
4. Stay Patient
Training takes time. Celebrate small wins and avoid getting frustrated. Your dog is trying their best, and so are you.
Teaching Your Dog Good Leash Walking Skills
Leash walking is one of the most common challenges dog owners face. Many dogs pull because they are excited, curious, or full of energy. The good news is that with positive reinforcement, you can teach your dog to walk politely.
Step 1: Start Indoors
Before heading outside, practice inside where there are fewer distractions. Clip on the leash and reward your dog for staying near you. Take a few steps and give a treat when they follow calmly. Make sure your dog is calm before leaving the house. If your dog is amped up before leaving, not only are you rewarding him for being amped up, but the walk will not go as smoothly as if your dog were calm before leaving.
Step 2: Reward the Position You Want
Decide where you want your dog to walk—usually on your left or right side. Every time your dog walks in that spot, reward them. This teaches them that staying close to you pays off.
Step 3: Stop When They Pull
If your dog pulls, stop walking. Stand still and wait. When the leash becomes loose again, reward your dog and continue with the walk. This teaches them that pulling does not get them where they want to go.
Step 4: Practice in Short Sessions
Start with short walks. As your dog improves, gradually increase the distance, difficulty, duration and distractions. This is easy to remember, all D’s.
Step 5: Add Distractions Slowly
Once your dog can walk nicely in quiet areas, practice in places with more distractions—like parks or busy sidewalks. Reward them frequently to keep them focused.
Why Dogs Pull on the Leash
Understanding why dogs pull can help you train more effectively. Dogs naturally walk faster than humans. They also use their noses to explore the world, so they may zigzag to follow scents. Some dogs pull because they are excited or anxious.
Positive reinforcement helps your dog learn that staying close to you is more rewarding than pulling ahead. Over time, they begin to look back to you more often and walk at your pace.
Using Positive Reinforcement During Walks
Walks are a great time to strengthen your bond. When your dog looks at you, reward them. When they walk beside you, praise them. These small moments teach your dog that paying attention to you is valuable.
You can also use “life rewards.” For example, if your dog wants to sniff a tree, ask them to sit first. When they do, let them go sniff. This teaches them that good behavior leads to fun experiences.
How Training Builds a Strong Bond
Training is not only about cues. It’s about communication. When you train your dog, you learn how to read their signals. You start to understand when they are nervous, excited, or tired. This helps you respond in ways that make your dog feel safe.
Here are some ways training builds a strong bond:
1. Trust
When you use positive reinforcement, your dog learns that you are fair and gentle. They trust you to guide them.
2. Communication
Training teaches your dog what your words and gestures mean. This makes daily life smoother. I hear a lot of dog owners telling their dog when the dog is doing something they do not like, so show them what they like instead and verbally praise them.
3. Teamwork
Training turns you and your dog into a team. You work together to solve problems and learn new skills.
4. Confidence
A trained dog feels more confident. They know what to expect and how to behave. A trained dog knows the expectations and understands that his owner will not go overboard if he does not understand. This builds a better bond with you and your dog.
Common Dog Training Mistakes to Avoid
Even with the best intentions, mistakes can happen. Here are a few to watch out for:
Using Punishment
Punishment will absolutely make dogs fearful or confused. It does not teach them what to do—only what not to do. Punishment does not work; the dog is only going to do it again and again, while at the same time becoming afraid of you. This is the EXACT opposite of what TO-DO.
Inconsistent Rules
If one person allows the dog on the couch and another doesn’t, the dog won’t know what to expect. This is confusing for the dog as well. Everyone in the home and everyone who visits the home has to know the same rules for the dog, perhaps post them on the fridge so everyone can clearly see them.
Training When You’re Frustrated
Dogs can sense your emotions. If you’re stressed, take a break and try again later.
Stopping Rewards Too Soon
Some owners stop giving treats too early. Keep rewarding your dog until the behavior is solid.
Turning Walks Into Quality Time
Leash walking is more than exercise. It’s a chance to bond. Use walks to explore new places, practice training, and enjoy each other’s company. When your dog feels connected to you, they are more likely to stay close and listen.
Try adding small training moments during walks:
- Ask for a “sit” at crosswalks.
- Practice “look” when passing distractions.
- Reward calm behavior around other dogs
These small habits help reinforce good manners and strengthen your bond.
When to Seek Professional Help
Some dogs need extra support. If your dog pulls very hard, reacts to other dogs, or seems anxious on walks, a professional trainer can help. Look for someone who only uses positive reinforcement and has experience with leash walking issues.
A good trainer can give you a personalized consultation and help you understand your dog’s behavior.
Final Thoughts
Dog training is a journey, not a race. With patience, consistency, and positive reinforcement, you can teach your dog to walk calmly on a leash and behave politely in many situations. More importantly, training helps you build a strong bond based on trust and communication.
Every treat, every praise, and every moment of teamwork brings you closer together. Whether you’re practicing leash walking or teaching a new trick, remember that training is about building healthy bonds. When you train with kindness, your dog learns more than commands—they learn that you are their partner, their guide, and their friend.
A. D.
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